Months after a horseback riding spill sent Sally Hamlin to the hospital via med flight, she stood in a field eyeing a 4-year-old T-bred that everyone said was “all wrong” for the timid, middle-aged rider.
“When my riding coach and I went out to look at this beautiful gray racehorse, she said I was crazy to consider buying a 4-year-old Thoroughbred,” Hamlin recalls. “The whole time we were looking at him, she was muttering under her breath. She was so funny. She just kept saying, ‘No. No. No. No.’ ”
Concerned though she was about getting another horse who might spook and bolt as her beloved horse Charlie had, only months earlier, causing a head injury, the placid gray she calls King seemed so kind.
Make Me King
Sire: Fair Skies
Dam: Lawful Beat
Foal date: May 8, 2003“The whole time, he kept watching me. He came up and rubbed his head on me, and he seemed like such a sweet horse. Some of this stuff I know, in hindsight, sounds really stupid,” she admits with a laugh. “But I lied to my riding coach! I told her I was getting him for less than the asking price and I promised that if he didn’t work out, we could sell him.”
But the 52-year-old chemist from Washington, D.C. knew soon after her hasty decision that this was an experiment that would work.
“I got him in late April 2008, and my coach started riding him the second day. At the end of the first week, she said, ‘You know I think you can start riding him next week.’ I got on him in May and he was so quiet,” Hamlin says. “I was nervous at first, I’m a timid rider, but within five minutes I wasn’t nervous anymore.”
She cantered the next day.
Hamlin soon realized that while she had loved many horses, including Charlie, who still has a good home with her, this kind-eyed gray Thoroughbred was what that lightning strike horsemen refer to as a “horse of a lifetime.”
“Even though he’s not perfect, and can act up a little, all I have to do is sit back and pull on the reins and he’ll stop,” she says. “I just think he has a pure soul, and I really think he takes care of me.”
The pair entered schooling shows together after six months, winning ribbons, and enjoying lazy hacks in between. Never aiming to be an A Circuit rider, Hamlin was just happy to regain her confidence in the saddle after a bad spill. And her life with her T-Bred has also opened other doors.
She began volunteering several years ago with the Thoroughbred Retirement Foundation’s Montpelier Farm, managing the database and assisting with fundraising. And four years ago, she poured her love of horses and her latent artistic talent into a jewelry-making endeavor that has raised nearly $7,000 for the Montpelier Farm.
Hamlin makes pendants and bracelets designed with interlocking hearts and an OTTB insignia that celebrates the off-track Thoroughbred. Created from hand carved wax models, and personalized to honor individual T-breds with carved Jockey Club names, the mementos are her way of saying thank you to the Thoroughbred in her life who turned out to be a gem.
“I really think King is the best thing that ever happened to me.”
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9 responses to “Eyeing the T-bred she heard ‘No!’— didn’t listen”
We love Sally and King! It was through meeting her at a Thoroughbred Celebration Horse Show in Virginia several years ago, that we have become fast friends.
Sally’s beautiful pendants will be the Champion and Reserve Champion prizes at our upcoming Thoroughly Thoroughbred Horse Show. The show benefits Transitions Thoroughbreds…so what better way to award prizes than from someone who donates the proceeds from sales to yet another thoroughbred rescue organization!
Wonderful story. I’m the proud wearer of two of Sally’s pendants and I purchased another as a gift. Beautiful work. Be sure to check out the link to her page.
Thank you for all of your nice comments and sharing your stories. It is nice to know that there are others in the same boat. I really appreciate your reading the article. It means allot.
Awesome story! I was in the same boat when I got my Tbred. Two bad falls and knowing that if I got hurt bad enough that I couldn’t work meant no more horse, had made me leary. My almost 10 year old son who needs me also made me nervous. It’s taken two years but he’s never put a wrong step out of place and we’ve been cantering and we’re entering our first show at the end of the month!
Congrats on the horse of a lifetime!
Sometimes, you just know. I had a grey TB, though not young, was a quiet, gentle soul who took care of me..he, too, was OTTB. Best horse that ever happened to me…a once in a lifetime horse. You could put a 4 yr old on him and he would take care of them. Her horse has the most kind eye, sometimes…your heart knows even if your brain and trainer says, “no”.
Lovely, lovely story!! Long live King and his Queen!!!
Sometimes you just have to ignore the “NO” and listen to your heart 🙂
What a great story, really glad you found your “King”!
Love the stories, wonderful cause and website!
Awesome story…Beautiful pendants…admirable person, Sally Hamlin!